Enhance Love and Relationships with Feng Shui
The Love and Relationships gua is located in the upper right quadrant of the Bagua Map. You can also enhance this gua in each individual room.
Many individuals focus only on the “love” aspect of this section, however it can be used to enhance your relationship with family, friends, co-workers and neighbors. The Love and Relationship gua helps you to attract and receive love energy. Put these quick tips into action and you’ll soon be experiencing the flow of love energy.
Things to Include:
Space ~ Make room for love energy by literally creating space. Clean out your medicine chest, dresser drawers, and closet. Clear clutter from under the bed, nightstands, or bookshelves.
Matching Pairs ~ Replace single items with matching pairs of things: a pair of dolphins, two red or pink candles, two hearts made of rose quartz, a pair of doves or two gold rings.
Sensual Items ~ Are you prepared to put the spark back in your relationship? Place a box of chocolates, a pair of red candles, massage oils, a bucket of champagne with two glasses, and a romance CD next to your bed. Use silk sheets with soft rose petals scattered about. Think of the five senses here, and make you sure you have catered to each.
Pink Stuff ~ Pink is the color of love in Feng Shui and can assist in holding love energy for you. You can keep it as simple as adding a pink sticky note, or as elaborate as decorating the entire area in pink. The choice is up to you, just make sure to clearly state and reinforce your intent.
Round Things ~ In Feng Shui, circles symbolize unending, eternal love – nice to have around in the relationship area.
Things to Avoid:
Stuff from the Past ~ If you are looking for new love energy, you’ve got to cut the ties to the past. Throw out the old love letters, gifts and trinkets. If you absolutely cannot part with them, ask a friend to store them for you until you attract the perfect love relationship.
Single Items ~ If you are single and seeking a love relationship, you can obtain fast results by removing art in the home that depicts a single woman. If you have an expensive portrait of yourself, give it to a friend or relative to hold for you. Portraits of single women attract single attitudes and energies. Hang art which includes happy couples or use sculptures of a couple embracing.
Single Arrangements ~ Having just one nightstand next to your bed and all the other space in your room filled to the brim with your stuff, gives the impression that you are comfortable with your single lifestyle.
Feminine Chí~ If your home or room is covered in satin and lace and makes a man cringe when he enters, you might want to lighten up on the girly stuff and get more in touch with your masculine side. If you are male and your bedroom looks like a hunting lodge, find ways to soften it up and make it somewhat “girlie.”
Juvenile Chí ~ Get rid of stuffed animals, games, dolls, high school trophies, etc. if you are seeking a mature relationship.
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